I read a quoted bit of his comment - the same bit quoted above with extra - and my own wall of judgement against him came down because that is one of the damned sleaziest, most underhanded, horrible arguments to make to a person -- he was saying that HE understands better than YOU do what would be healthy for you to do with your body, and that that healthy thing would be for you to let him touch your boobs. "Considering your body yours to control is not always healthy" is still putting too nice of a spin on it. I read it very much as what rushthatspeaks pointed out: (http://the-red-shoes.livejournal.com/1263869.html?thread=12469245#t12469245)"The way he is using 'oh, people who do not see awesome in this are uptight and unhealthy' as a shaming statement really gets my goat.

Because I don't think it's unhealthy in the slightest not to buy into his juvenile 'utopian sexual vision', but. Even if it were?

He is using 'uptight and unhealthy' to mean 'not worthy of being listened to'. Because of course people who are 'uptight and unhealthy' have forfeited their place in the public discourse."

So it is a multi-layered ATTACK on your agency and on all women's agency.