Not that I know of. Alt.poly poster. But ya know, I know a LOT of people like this, and I want to shake them and say "Listen, if you think it will endanger your kids, DON'T FUCKING DO IT." If you think it's something you need to do, but you want to teach your kids to be ashamed of it, examine why you're willing to do something you're ashamed of. But mostly, if you think it will hurt your kids, STOP IT, you ASSHOLE.

(Just ranting. People should do what they think is best for them. I just have really really strong feelings about the kinds of messages people send to their kids, and the manipulation some people are willing to do to ensure that they can do whatever they want.)

I'd have more respect for someone who was so discreet that their kids didn't *know* about their being poly than for someone who expected their kids to lie for them.