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serene ([personal profile] serene) wrote2007-06-30 11:37 am

More family-of-origin drama

I spent last night trying to help my nephew (known herein as Munchkin The Elder) figure out what to do after he ran away following a fistfight with his mom. Cops were called; he was escorted home against his wishes; his mother left and said she's moving out, but she's back now; things are very much up in the air right now. I am out of tears. I'm essentially numb, emotionally. I don't know what's next. I do know that he'll be up to visit us for a week or so, so everyone can have a break.

[identity profile] klwalton.livejournal.com 2007-06-30 06:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so very glad he has you.
mackenzie: (DS - Terrible Horrible)

[personal profile] mackenzie 2007-06-30 07:07 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs and support*

Let us know if we can do anything, from bringing a video game console over to your home, to going to play games in San Francisco, to a mellow evening over here.

[identity profile] gremlin44.livejournal.com 2007-06-30 07:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. I know your family is very dear to you and those children are your heart.

I will be thinking of you all.

[identity profile] tiger-spot.livejournal.com 2007-06-30 07:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. ::hugs::

[identity profile] artemii.livejournal.com 2007-06-30 07:56 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm so sorry. i hope the visit goes well.

[identity profile] pyrzqxgl.livejournal.com 2007-06-30 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, that sounds miserable. I'm sure the visit will be a great relief.
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[personal profile] firecat 2007-06-30 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
You rock for being there for him.

[identity profile] mactavish.livejournal.com 2007-06-30 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh jeez, poor kid. :/

My brother and my mom used to fight like that (Mom loved her kids, but seemed to be totally confused about teenagers, and fought with all four of them), and to this day, he adores my aunt, who gave him emotional support throughout.

[identity profile] hitchhiker.livejournal.com 2007-06-30 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
poor kid :( i'm glad he had you to turn to.

[identity profile] sagefemme11.livejournal.com 2007-06-30 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Yuck.

Sounds awful for everyone involved.. Thank all that is holy he has a supportive auntie to share his burden with. You rock!

[identity profile] kalmn.livejournal.com 2007-07-01 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
oh, so hard. *hug*

hang in there.

[identity profile] hobbitbabe.livejournal.com 2007-07-01 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
Thinking of you, thinking of both munchkins.

[identity profile] wordweaverlynn.livejournal.com 2007-07-01 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. I wish I could help.

[identity profile] elynne.livejournal.com 2007-07-01 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for doing what you can.

[identity profile] pipyn.livejournal.com 2007-07-02 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
I'm trying to wrap my mind around engaging in fisticuffs with my own child. Then making the police drag him back to me.

I'm sorry he's having to go through such a lousy time, and glad you're able to give a little respite to him. How old is he now?

[identity profile] moominmuppet.livejournal.com 2007-07-02 03:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, what a hard situation for everyone involved. Like everyone else, I'm glad he's got you.
lcohen: (the hand)

[personal profile] lcohen 2007-07-05 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
one of these days. no, i won't say it, but i am thinking it loudly.

i am thinking good thoughts at you and horrible thoughts at her.