serene: liberty-justice is my femslash (liberty justice)
serene ([personal profile] serene) wrote2008-05-31 04:12 am
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Men who explain things.

(I allow men to explain things to me that I already understand, far too often. They should stop it, and I should stop allowing it.)

[Edit: To those men who are explaining linux text editors to me, I didn't mean you. I *don't* understand this, and I appreciate the help. It's coincidence that I ran across this article at this time. :-)]

[identity profile] amythis.livejournal.com 2008-05-31 02:39 pm (UTC)(link)
This is a good article, but I agree with a couple commenters that some women do this to other women, too. Because I don't present myself as INTELLIGENT (in an aggressive or even assertive way), "strong-minded" women like to condescend to me, even on topics like literature and history, where I know a great deal more than they do.

I think I tune it out more when men do it, because I grew up with a father who thought he was a genius and wasn't, but he never cared if I was actually listening.

[identity profile] micheinnz.livejournal.com 2008-06-02 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
My father would, if shown where he was wrong in an encyclopedia or textbook, talk about "ivory-tower academics who don't know anything about the Real World." So yeah, I get ya here.