Actually the people on my friend's list are people that I am sort of friends with. I know that *we* have never really met, but we've flirted through email for years so I feel comfortable telling you things I wouldn't tell just anyone.
I am having a similar problem myself. I got my LJ code through one of M's roommates, who was a good friend before I started dating M. Spending a lot of time with his roommate has put me over some threshold of being able to deal with him. Two nights ago I wanted to kill the guy because he was reading over my shoulder while I was on the laptop, which I hate. I would like to defriend this guy, because I don't want him to have more knowledge about the inner workings of my relationship with M than he gets from being in the house. I don't feel like I can because of the message it sends and the fact he gave me my LJ code. I ended up creating a custom friends list that doesn't have him in it. Ick.
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Date: 2003-03-01 05:59 am (UTC)I am having a similar problem myself. I got my LJ code through one of M's roommates, who was a good friend before I started dating M. Spending a lot of time with his roommate has put me over some threshold of being able to deal with him. Two nights ago I wanted to kill the guy because he was reading over my shoulder while I was on the laptop, which I hate. I would like to defriend this guy, because I don't want him to have more knowledge about the inner workings of my relationship with M than he gets from being in the house. I don't feel like I can because of the message it sends and the fact he gave me my LJ code. I ended up creating a custom friends list that doesn't have him in it. Ick.