My hope

[serene]

My hope is that this, from mactavish is how my family members
feel about me when I die:

mactavish said:

"Earlier this morning, I read a quote from Ann Druyan, who was married to
Carl Sagan when he died, and I want to save it forever. Maybe I'll frame
it:"

"If the universe is indeed 12.5 billion years old and the most
you as an individual can hope for is 100 years, and there's more billions
of years to come, the only victory is to live fully and completely, to be
totally alive every moment you're here. Do whatever you can to make this
planet less brutal and squalid. Ask questions that make a difference, work
for justice. Make your short burst of life count.

"The reason I was able to survive the grief of Carl's death is that the
authenticity of what we experienced together was so pure. I learned that
if you really love someone you should be very nice to them, because what's
really going to haunt you after they die is the times you were grumpy to
them, or didn't take an opportunity to show your love.

"If you feel like what was between you was totally cool, that you did
everything you could with the time you had, that you lived fully and
ethically, then your sadness is tempered by thankfulness."