lovebirds

[serene]

Got this one from baxil



1) What are your middle names?

I'm finding lots of uses for micheinnz's "That's classified, Citizen" today.

2) How long have you been together?

A little over six years, in both cases.

3) How long did you know each other before you started dating?

stonebender and I knew each other on the periphery in alt.poly for around 5 years; then another several months of email before our first date. someotherguy and I had been emailing for a day before we met in person, and then our first official date was four days later.

4) Who asked whom out?

stonebender: I think I suggested he might want to show me around the bay area. someotherguy: He asked if there were any atheist gatherings in town; I said there was one the next day, and I'd go if he would. Then for our first official date, I said, "I'd like to get together on Saturday if you don't have plans," and he said, "If we have plans, we'll cancel them."

5) How old are each of you?

I'm 42. Their ages are their business.

6) Whose siblings do you see the most?

stonebender's sister. someotherguy's brother. Both my partners have met my sister, but I don't think either one has met my brothers.

7) Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?

That's classified, Citizen.

8) Did you go to the same school?

Nope.

9) Are you from the same home town?

Nope, though we all had California home towns at some point.

10) Who is smarter?

Hard to say.

11) Who is the most sensitive?

Probably stonebender, but I'm probably not unbiased about that.

12) Where do you eat out most as a couple?

stonebender and I probably eat at Bowzers more often than any other place; someotherguy and I bounce around the places in the Temescal Triangle.

13) Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?

stonebender: San Diego; someotherguy: Oregon.

14) Who has the craziest exes?

I probably do, but I have the most exes, so that's probably only natural.

15) Who has the worst temper?

Definitely stonebender, though it honestly hasn't been an issue. We don't piss each other off very often.

16) Who does the cooking?

Mostly, I do, but someotherguy is a good cook.

17) Who is the neat-freak?

Of the three, probably stonebender.

18) Who is more stubborn?

stonebender by a mile.

19) Who hogs the bed covers?

I don't think any of us does, but they can correct me if I'm wrong.

20) Who wakes up earlier?

Nearly always me.

21) Where was your first date?

stonebender: We walked around Berkeley -- had coffee at Au Coquelet, soup at Mel's, bookstore browsing at Other Change...; soemotherguy: Depends on your definitions. Our first meeting was at an Atheist Coalition monthly meeting, but our first date date was the following Saturday. We walked around San Diego with sogwife.

22) Who is more jealous?

That's impossible to answer. We've all had our jealous moments. someotherguy is the only one who's never an asshole about it, though. ;-)

23) How long did it take to get serious?

With stonebender, a few months. With someotherguy, some number of days that's less than twelve, because by day twelve, we knew that whatever we had to do to spend the rest of our lives together, we'd do that.

24) Who eats more?

I eat more than both of them combined.

25) Who does the laundry?

stonebender has help with his laundry. someotherguy and I do the laundry for ourselves and wtfpotatoes together.

26) Who’s better with the computer?

someotherguy is the programmer; I'm the power user.

27) Who drives when you are together?

Usually, I do.