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sereneMy mom passed away this morning. I have never had a day that didn't have her in it. I am numb and sad and fine and scared and confident she would find some amusement (the dark kind) in the fact that she died from a mystery ailment and not the fucking coronavirus.
There will be no services. If you want to honor my mom, find something you're not using anymore, and give it to someone who needs/wants it. That was her way, and she would get a kick out of that.
There will be no services. If you want to honor my mom, find something you're not using anymore, and give it to someone who needs/wants it. That was her way, and she would get a kick out of that.
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Date: 2020-09-23 03:49 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-09-23 04:23 am (UTC)I am hunting objects right now to give to somebody who actually wants them.
P.
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Date: 2020-09-23 04:35 am (UTC)(And I will try and do that.)
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Date: 2020-09-23 05:16 am (UTC)I will honour your mom by doing that. I'm not very good at letting go of things, but I will think of you and her when I do it.
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Date: 2020-09-23 08:40 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-09-23 08:43 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-09-23 10:19 am (UTC)I am so sorry for your loss.
I will think of you when I next list something on freecycle.
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Date: 2020-09-23 11:59 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2020-09-23 12:25 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-09-23 12:49 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-09-23 12:58 pm (UTC)i'll put together a box of clothes to donate in her memory. love to you.
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Date: 2020-09-23 01:46 pm (UTC)-J
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Date: 2020-09-23 04:12 pm (UTC)I'm sorry for your loss, and glad your mom would be chuffed with bucking the current disease trend. Let me know if getting some food or a veggie box or something delivered would be helpful; I'd be glad to foot the bill.
*some more hugs*
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Date: 2020-09-23 05:30 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2020-09-24 12:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-09-25 12:21 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-09-25 02:54 pm (UTC)If you ever need to talk, Chris and I have both been through that pain.
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Date: 2020-09-26 09:53 pm (UTC)Solidarity for honoring those who've passed in ways other than holding funeral services.
I will think of your mom the next time I give something away to someone who needs it, which is something I do a lot, at least during times when I get face-to-face with actual people at all.
<3
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Date: 2020-10-03 03:53 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2020-12-18 06:00 pm (UTC)I remember how I felt when my mother died. ALL the emotions. Sending love to you.