timekiller from kightp

[serene]

SEPTEMBER:
Suave and compromising. Careful, cautious and organized. Likes to point out people's mistakes. Likes to criticize. Stubborn. Quiet but able to talk well. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal but not always honest. Does work well. Very confident. Sensitive. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Must control oneself when criticizing. Able to motivate oneself. Understanding. Fun to be around. Secretive. Loves sports, leisure and traveling. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Very choosy, especially in relationships. Systematic.

Comments

timekiller

[pir-anha.livejournal.com]

what, you're not sympathetic? we must use a different definition of the word? care to explain how you mean that? (i know you're busy; definitely feel free to ignore.)

Re: timekiller

[serenejournal.livejournal.com]

I mean (and I haven't given this tons of thought, but some, so the words may be middling wrongish) that any sympathetic expression from me comes from a place, normally, of intellectual wishing that things were better for people, rarely from a place of "ouch, that person is hurting and it makes me hurt." Sometimes that latter thing happens, but more often my gut is not as interested in people's wellbeing, nor as ummm empathetic as I feel it would be if I were to describe myself as a sympathetic person, and now I'm thinking of sympathetic in the "evoking positive emotions, as would a sympathetic fictional character" and thinking maybe in that sense, I may be sympathetic. Hm.