Serene of the Oakland Serenes

Tomorrow at this time, I'll be halfway to stonebender's house. Thinking about anything but the trip (and preparations for the trip) is difficult today, but things are going on anyway, as things will have the tendency to do.

Had a wonderful date with sogwife and someotherguy yesterday. Spent a couple hours with sogwife first, then the three of us hung out together in a really peaceful, loving way. someotherguy made wonderful soba/tofu soup that I'm still wanting more of. Relationship-geeked a bit with someotherguy and spent a lot of time just shaking my head in wonder at how good my life has gotten lately, and how easy just about everything has been. And admiring how incredibly beautiful sogwife is, but that's par for the course. Also spent a fair amount of time enthusing over seeing stonebender, which I hope wasn't too obnoxious. :-) (They gave me something to give to him, which I think was adorable.)

And. *deep breath* They gave me their key.

Tonight, we (cute-poet-chick, someotherguy, sogwife, and I) are having dinner together. "Interesting" is such a wimpy word for what this evening will be.

I don't get all bouncy about people after one week. Yeesh.

:-)

...or even if I want it to last, but I clicked an LJ link out of reflex today and found that for some reason, LJ isn't blocked at work any more. Hmm.

At any rate, mostly out of my post-con slump. Feeling like I want to invite more touch and comfortable-companionship (and maybe romance?) into my life, because being around people all weekend, people I could just hang with or touch, was really really good for me. I wouldn't call myself touch-starved, exactly, since I seem to do fine with what I get, but it was restorative and beautiful, and I want More More More. Oh, great, earworm. But anyway, I want more flirting in my life, and more touching, and more hanging out, and basically more friends. I don't really have any local friends who aren't "couple-friends" or family. Again, I do fine with what I get, but I want more.

Speaking of friends, gonna see trinker tonight, if all goes as planned. Maybe cook something simple, maybe jacuzzi for a while, maybe just hang out and chatter at each other. It's been too long.