Serene of the Oakland Serenes

Serene: oh, god, I did something terrible today. I mean really horrible.
encountered a co-worker, and no shit, here is what I said:
"have you lost a bunch of weight?"

James: hee!

Serene: could have committed ritual suicide right there
(she said yes, thanks! and we moved on)

James: only you would be having an existential crisis over that

Serene: maybe. still. :-)

James: I'll consider intervening when you tell someone they'd look beutiful if they just lost a few pounds :)

Serene: Hee! Fair enough.