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[serene]

Not too shabby, this day I had today. someotherguy and I had some easy, happy time together (yesterday was not so much with the easy, but still, never been with someone who made life so good and so easy on such a regular basis). The fender-bender we were in with stonebender's car didn't hurt anyone (and did very little damage -- a guy in a van backed into us).

Later, dryadgrl came over and we sat on either side of someotherguy and cuddled and chit-chatted in a really sweet way. She and I have been adjusting to some new dynamics in our friendship, and I think we're doing a damn fine job. I had fun, and it was nice to chat with my friend again. I have some jealousy issues going on, and she and someotherguy have been real sweethearts about it, and I'm sure that's a big factor in the fact that I was so happy today. It's so easy to be happy when I can be myself, my real self, with no bullshit or faking, and the people in my life still love and take care of me.

(My other three sweeties have been wonderful, too -- they have gotten a bit less (and, in some cases, a lot less) of my attention the last couple of weeks, and they've been nothing but supportive.)

But right now I just want to express my gratitude for someotherguy, who makes me feel like who I am is a perfectly wonderful person to be. Considering the weight I put on his opinion, that's a really huge deal for me.

Life is good. And challenging and exciting and fun and passionate and a royal pain in the ass sometimes. But mostly, life is good.

Tomorrow, the jobhunt begins in earnest (not that I haven't already put in lots of resumes and stuff, but I was doing it in my spare time -- tomorrow, finding a job becomes my job). Wish me luck, and have a good Tuesday.

Comments

[dryadgrl]

I'm so glad.
It was great to see you.
I love you!

[serenejournal.livejournal.com]

Love you, too.

[klwalton.livejournal.com]

You are amazing and wonderful. I say so, so it must be true :). And it's true anyway.

I still have your keys and your baking dish. Just sayin' :).

[serenejournal.livejournal.com]

Wow, I had forgotten all about those things. I'm unemployed this week; wanna get together for cheap lunch or something? Or just sit and sip tea for a little?

[klwalton.livejournal.com]

Yes :). Send me email letting me know what's easiest for you, and I'll drive to wherever you are and I'll buy lunch. Okay? :) Wednesday or Thursday would be best for me.

[serenejournal.livejournal.com]

Thank you for always being such a huge boost to me. Thank you for your unalloyed approbation and your being such a steady, stalwart friend for so many years.

[klwalton.livejournal.com]

Oh, sweetie... You make it *easy*. You're one in a million, in the best possible way.

[saoba.livejournal.com]

Saturday Himself and I had a glitch. There was some pretty heavily freighted conversation, because the one of the few things less fun than having to point out that someone owes you an apology is being the person being pointed out to. (If that parses at all.)

And, really, it happens to us so rarely that most of the ouchfulness involved was our surprise at it happening to us.

But it got sorted fairly quickly and then we had a shared wry moment of 'well, that's done, good on us' and smiled. And we spent a few minutes being pleased at each other and at ourselves for handling it well.

Being loved for who you really are is like having a safe harbor, storms are easier to weather.

[klwalton.livejournal.com]

Being loved for who you really are is like having a safe harbor, storms are easier to weather.

Truer words were never spoke. :)

[vito-excalibur.livejournal.com]

Ooh yes, that's exactly it. We have no power to get rid of rough weather. But we can do things to get through it.

[elissaann.livejournal.com]

I'm glad everyone's okay after the car accident.

Good luck on the job hunt!

But right now I just want to express my gratitude for someotherguy, who makes me feel like who I am is a perfectly wonderful person to be.

Hurray! I shall add that idea to my relationship nonnegotiables.

[tracytreefrog.livejournal.com]

So Glad all is well!

[pyrzqxgl.livejournal.com]

Good luck with your job hunt!

[vito-excalibur.livejournal.com]

Ack, I'm sorry you had a car accident, that sucks. I'm glad y'all are okay. And that you're coping with the challenging things and taking care of each other.

[jb98.livejournal.com]

I have some jealousy issues going on, and she and someotherguy have been real sweethearts about it,

So glad to hear y'all handle things so well. I'm having a few very low key jealousy issues of my own and it's nice to hear how people I respect handle them with ease.

The fender-bender we were in with stonebender's car didn't hurt anyone (and did very little damage

So glad to hear it was minor and no one was hurt.

Wish me luck, and have a good Tuesday.

Good luck and Good Tuesday!

[marci-ny.livejournal.com]

I'm so glad you guys weren't hurt in the car accident!! Good luck on finding a job!! Keeping my fingers crossed for you! :)

~Marci

[lcohen]

ack! no car accidents! i have spoken.

[serenejournal.livejournal.com]

Yes, ma'am, I read you loud and clear!